An honorific is a term used to convey esteem or respect. "Honorific" may refer broadly to the style of language or particular words used, or, as in this article, to specific words used to convey honor to one perceived as a social superior.

Honorifics are similar to English titles like "sir" and "ma'am," but in Japanese, which has many honorifics, their use is mandatory in many social situations.

Contents

1 Examples of honorifics in Japanese 1.1 Rarer forms 1.2 O- and go- 1.3 Exceptions 2 Usage notes

Examples of honorifics in Japanese

Honorifics in Japanese may be used to emphasise social distance or disparity in rank, or to emphasise social intimacy or similarity in rank (see uchi-soto).

In Japanese, honorifics are always placed after the name.

• -san (さん). -San is the most common honorific, and its use is mandatory when addressing most social outsiders (for example, non-family members). -San is used unless it is superceded by some other title, and is often translated as "Mr.", "Ms.", "Mrs.", and the like, though such a translation is not always accurate. -San is the Japanese honorific most familiar to non-Japanese people. -San may also be used to create other titles; a bookseller might be addressed as "honya-san" (roughly, "Mr. bookseller").
  • -han (はん). -Han is the equivalent to -san in the Kansai dialect.

• -kun (くん，君). -Kun is an informal and intimate honorific primarily used by superiors in addressing inferiors, or each other by the equals, usually male (though in some cases it can be used for women also). Schoolteachers typically address male students using -kun. -Kun is also used among friends of similar social standing, and by parents and relatives to address older male children (instead of -chan). Dietmen and Jaycees in Japan call each other with this honorific paradoxically in formal situation because they are equal in principle.

• -chan (ちゃん). -Chan is the informal, intimate, diminutive equivalent of -san, used primarily by children to refer to friends and family members but also applied to siblings, to close friends and lovers, and to children by adults.

• -sama (様). -Sama is the most formal honorific used in daily conversation in Japanese. It is used primarily in addressing persons much higher in rank than oneself (as long as some other title is unavailable), and is used in commercial and business settings to address and refer to customers. (See uchi-soto for a more in-depth analysis). -Sama is also used after the addressee's name on postal packages and letters, again provided it is not superceded by some other title.

Rarer forms

• -dono or -tono (どの). -Dono/-tono roughly means "lord." It is no longer used in daily conversation, though it is still seen on certificates and awards. It is less seldom seen in anime, where characters are often either members of royal or noble houses, or gain sufficient respect for the honorific.

• -ue (上). -Ue literally means "above" and, appropriately, denotes a high level of respect. While its use is no longer very common, it is still seen in constructions like 父上 (chichi-ue) and 母上 (haha-ue), reverent terms for one's own, or someone else's, father and mother, respectively.

• -shi (氏). Seldom used in speech, this is used in formal writing, but in situtations where, for whatever reason, the writer feels sama is inappropriate. It is preferred in legal documents, academic journals, and certain other formal written styles. Once a person's name has been used with shi, the person can be referred to with shi alone, without the name, as long as there is only one person being referred to.

O- and go-

O- and go- are honorific prefixes which are applied to nouns (and sometimes to verbs, particularly when using keigo). In general, go- attaches to Sino-Japanese words (i.e., those borrowed from Chinese or made from Sino-Japanese elements), while o- attaches to native Japanese words. There are exceptions, however.

There are some words which frequently or always take these prefixes, regardless of who is speaking and to whom; these are ordinary items which may have particular cultural significance, such as tea (o-cha) and rice (go-han). Honorific prefixes can be used for other items to comic or sarcastic effect (for example, o-kokakōra, "honourable Coca-Cola"). Overuse of honorific prefixes may be taken as pretentious or simpering.

In tea ceremony, common ingredients and equipment frequently take the honorific o- or go-, including water (o-mizu), hot water (o-yu), and tea bowls (o-chawan). However, these terms are often heard in daily life as well.

The honorific prefixes are also used, as are the honorifics above, in polite conversation:

• Chūmon: an order (at a restaurant); go-chūmon: a customer's order
• Kazoku: my family; family; go-kazoku: your family, somone else's family

Some words do not fit the standard o-/go- pattern. Denwa, meaning telephone, is a Sino-Japanese word, but its poite form is o-denwa (contrary to popular belief, this word was coined in Japan and exported to China and Korea). Loanwords seldom take honorifics, but o- seems to be preferrable to go-. One example is o-biiru, which can sometimes be heard at restaurants.

Exceptions

Some words, particularly ones relating to familial relations, have entirely different honorific forms.

• (O-)tō-san: used when addressing one's own father or referring to someone else's father; chichi: "my father"
• (O-)kā-san: used when addressing one's own mother or referring to someone else's mother; haha: "my mother"

Usage notes

• In general, women speak more politely than men. Women tend to use these polite forms more than men, though sometimes, word choice, rather than polite affixes, determine politeness level. For example, gohan is more polite than meshi; both mean "cooked rice" and, by extension, "meal."

• Among young people, polite speech is becoming eschewed in many cases, and as a consequence some honorifics, particularly name suffixes, are much less frequently used. Friends frequently use no honorific on each other's names, although classmates who do not know each other well might use -san or -kun.

• The way that a person calls a friend is often determined by when their friendship started. Those who met as young children may call each other -chan throughout their lives, while those who meet as adults often use surnames, and might not even know how a friend reads the characters used to write their given name.

• As noted above, Japanese social customs deem that it is more respectful to refer to someone by a title than by their name. Thus, teachers are frequently called sensei; often, the surname is added only when necessary to disambiguate. Elder brothers and sisters are called o-nii-san and o-nee-san (or -chan, depending on the age of the younger sibling using the title). Store workers frequently refers to customers simply as o-kyaku-sama ("honorable customer"), although the structure of Japanese allows many things to be said without directly referring to someone.

• Although these prefixes are often translated into English as "honorable (whatever)," this translation does not convey the true feeling of their use in Japanese. The closest equivalent in English would be something like someone who speaks formally and "properly."